Blog:My Child Hates Their Glasses!
Getting glasses can be a big adjustment for kids - and for many families, it’s not love at first sight. Maybe your child says they hate how they look, complains that the glasses feel weird, or refuses to wear them at all. Sound familiar?
At Bright Eyes Needham, we hear this all the time from patients coming in - and we promise, there’s hope. Choosing the right frames and lenses can make all the difference in how your child feels about their glasses and how well they see with them.
Here’s what we recommend when your child isn’t thrilled about their new specs.
Kids are more likely to wear their glasses consistently if they’re comfortable, secure, and fit their face.
What we look for:
Frames that rest gently on the bridge (no sliding or pinching)
Temples that wrap securely without squeezing
Lenses that sit in the right spot for their line of sight
Lightweight materials that feel good all day
We stock frames specifically designed for kids - including options for toddlers, tweens, and everything in between - and we make sure every pair is adjusted perfectly before your child leaves the office.
Style matters, especially to kids.
Giving your child some control over the color, shape, or material can help them feel proud of their glasses, rather than embarrassed. We’ll guide them toward frames that are both fun and functional - durable, flexible, and built to last through recess, sports, and everything in between.
We also carry frames that mimic adult styles for older kids and teens who want something sleek and modern.
Even the coolest frames won’t get worn if the lenses aren’t working well. That’s why we recommend modern lens technology that offers:
Sharper, more natural vision with premium optics
Anti-reflective coatings to reduce glare and eye strain
Lightweight, impact-resistant materials (like polycarbonate or Trivex)
Options for photochromic lenses (clear indoors, sunglasses outside)
Not all lenses are created equal, and we’ll help you choose what’s right for your child based on their age, lifestyle, and prescription needs.
Kids don’t just need glasses to see better; they need to feel better in them too. When glasses are stylish, fit well, and improve vision comfortably, most kids come around - and many start to love their look.
We’ve seen it happen again and again: the child who resisted their glasses at first walks out of our office smiling, wearing a pair they helped choose, and excited to show them off.
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